Posted by: SandreS | March 4, 2015

Choosing the “Right” Wife, or Being the Right Husband

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Sometimes a husband may grumble about his “choice” of a wife. He’ll speak of her incompatibility, her lack of interest in mutual things, her indifference in spiritual matters, her deficiency of physical appeal, etc.

Interestingly, in Old Testament times marriages were commonly arranged. Although we do not necessarily promote a return to its practice, that does not mean that it was without any merit. One interesting thing that it and the levirate law (where a man was required to marry his brother’s widow) do is that they demonstrate that a man can love and care for a woman – any woman – even one they did not even choose themselves. The bottom line is that marriage is not so much about “choosing” the “right” wife, as it is about being the right husband.

Paul did not write:

Husbands love your ideal wives …

Husbands love your loving wives …

Husbands love your helpful wives …

Husbands love your Proverbs 31 wives …

Husbands love your non-deficient wives …

Husbands love your uncomplicated wives …

Husbands love your unbroken wives …

Husbands love your compatible wives …

Husbands love your submissive wives …

Husbands love your spiritual wives …

Husbands love your attractive wives …

Husbands love your supermodel wives …

Husbands love your sexy wives …

No, without qualification, he simply wrote:

Husbands love your wives …

Clyde L. Pilkington, Jr.
(Excerpted from his upcoming book, Wife Loving)

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